How to Impress a Girl

November 15, 2021 Greg Aronoff

How to impress a girl?

Be interesting.

Okay, well, there's more to it than that - status/power, chivilary, style, and being an all around 'stand up guy'.

But for now, let's go over how to impress a girl by being interesting on a date. Whether it's the first date or the 50th, you can implement this list of expert tips and techniques immediately.

So, below are experts from great articles with a link to read them in full on their respective sites...

DATE ≠ INTERVIEW

Questions are one of the best and funnest... er, funner... most fun way to get to know your date.

However, most guys treat a first date like an interview:

Where you from?
What do you do for a living?
What do you do for fun?
Favorite books and movies?
Siblings?

Don't be that guy.

Besides being boring, you're also not helping yourself standout and be unique. A quality girl has probably answered these boring questions a thousand times.

Instead, incorporate this list of 10 tips, games and tests below.

Your date (and love life) will thank you.

THE CUBE
via http://oliveremberton.com

I’m going to share a game with you. This game will reveal incredible things about whoever plays it; surprise, shock and delight complete strangers, and has kickstarted more friendships than I know how to count.

Play along and you’ll see.

I want you to imagine a desert, stretching out as far as your eyes can see. In this desert is a cube.

Read how the Cube works and how the game is played at -www.oliverermberton.com

LOVE PERSONALITY TEST
via http://www.monkeywiththehat.com

Imagine that are walking to your boyfriend/girlfriend's house...

1. You are walking to your boyfriend/girlfriend's house. There are two roads to get there. One is a straight path which takes you there quickly, but is very plain and boring. The other is curvy and full of wonderful sights on the way, but takes quite a while to reach your loved one's house.

Which path do you choose? Short or long?

Analysis: Which road do you choose to take to your love's house?

Read the Love Personality test in full and what the questions mean at - http://www.monkeywiththehat.com

NEVER HAVE I via http://www.yourtango.com

(The Ellen Show - Never Have I)

Never Have I Ever is a really fun game to play, especially if you want to get to know someone quickly.

Even better? Using these Never Have I Ever dirty questions to get to know your partner's kinks, desires and turn-on's. It can be so much more fun and much faster than having a boring conversation about each others kinks and turn on's.

I'm going to give you the 20 dirtiest Never Have I Ever questions, but first you need to understand a few rules and guidelines to using these dirty questions to ensure maximum fun — without accidentally freaking someone out!

Read all the Never Have I Ever questions and how to have fun with your date at - http://www.yourtango.com

ASK FUN QUESTIONS
via http://cupofjo.com

What do you usually talk about on a date?

I don’t know about you, but I am of the mind that a date should not feel like a job interview. When a well-meaning person asks, “Which famous person, living or dead, would you invite to dinner?” I want to say (as politely as possible), “Someone who wouldn’t ask questions like that.”

Instead, here are a few topics I’ve found spark great conversation…

Read all of these great questions at http://cupofjo.com

SCAVENGER HUNT
via http://greatist.com

(Scavenger Hunt List from www.stacymakescents.com)

The days of scavenger hunts may feel long over, but they don’t have to be. Plus, they’re easy to organize yourself.

Simply make a list of a few things you’ve been dying to try (don’t be afraid to get creative), and head out to find and experience them all.

You can make it as simple or complicated as desired, and you can always throw in the towel and grab a drink if needed—alone or with each other.

Read about scavenger hunts and other great first date ideas at http://greatist.com.

FIVE QUESTIONS
via https://www.neilstrauss.com/

How to attract women with five questions?

With Neil Strauss for a great game that you can bring out to increase the date of the energy with some playful teasing...

Watch the video above and find out about all things Neil Strauss at https://www.neilstrauss.com/

PALM READING
via www.buzzle.com

(Palmistry video - love and affection lines by Jim Winter)

The Mount of Jupiter: This mount is just below the index finger.

If the mount is well-developed and rounded, it means that the person is optimistic, honest in his thoughts with himself and other people, sociable and honorable with outstanding leadership qualities.

A flat mount is an indication of a dull personality that lacks confidence. If the mount is over-developed, the person may be hoity-toity and egoistic, arrogant and horribly proud.

A short line on this mount (between the head line and the heart line denotes that there is a lot of fortune in store).

Palmistry is a great way start touching hands. And everyone loves a good hand massage. Become more knowledgable about how to read palms at www.buzzle.com

MIND READING
via http://www.goodtricks.net

Effect: A person is given a few instructions with a seemingly unlimited choice of answers. They are instructed not to reveal their chosen answers. You should then be able to predict what that person had been thinking of, to everybody's amazement.

Method : Read out the following instructions to your friend and get them to think of the answer as soon as possible.

This is a fun game when you have someone's undivided attention. You might want to have your date write down their answers since there is some basic math involved. It's worth it. Read the full instructions at www.buzzle.com

LISTEN BETTER
via www.skillsyouneed.com

(Julian Treasure's Ted Talk: 5 Ways to Listen Better)

“If we were supposed to talk more than we listen, we would have two tongues and one ear.” Mark Twain.

Don't talk, listen. When somebody else is talking listen to what they are saying, do not interrupt, talk over them or finish their sentences for them. Stop, just listen.

When the other person has finished talking you may need to clarify to ensure you have received their message accurately.

Read how to improve your listening skills with little tips and techniques at www.skillsyouneed.com.

HOW TO GET PHYSICAL
via http://www.mensfitness.com

Have you ever had a great date, brought a woman home, and sat on the couch while figuring out how to “make your move”?

That’s usually a first-class ticket to Let’s Just Be Friends-ville. Touching and kissing should be a natural progression all night, not some big, awkward shift.

Start by touching her shoulders or elbow or playfully putting your arm around her, and gauge her reaction from there.

Read how to get physical and other dating tips and suggestions for a smooth first date at
http://www.mensfitness.com.

WRAP UP

There you go - 10 tips and ideas to impress any girl.

And here's one last tip - pick multiple date places where talking and touching is easy. Pretty much the opposite of sitting with a table between you at dinner or being politely quite in a movie.

Going to say, three different locations, will feel like you've been on three different dates, and your comfort level with each other will be higher by the end of the night.

So check out the resources above and strive to be playful, unique, and above all - yourself.

-Greg-

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